Naked at Our Age: Talking Out Loud About Senior Sex

There were a lot of testimonials to which i could relate. Some of them were sad while others were hopeful. I’m suggesting my spouse read some chapters.

EXCELLENT! Buy it, read it! Enjoy it!Much of this info was new to me even though I thought I was knew it all. Easy and fun to read...love the author's way of writing and will buy the rest of her books and listen to her podcasts!There are also some great links to other resources and other people in this field you won't want to miss.The only negative issue, was perhaps for me, the dearth of a LATE 70's to 80's focus. I felt the book was geared more towards younger seniors in their 50's and 60's. At this age every decade makes a huge difference in our bodies and minds. I really wanted to know more about sex in this older age bracket (it's where I am at). There was not enough of those folks feedback for my taste. Is this because people my age are not having enough sex to contribute to a questionaire? or were they just not sharing with the author when she sent it out?Regardless, it is still an interesting, entertaining and educational read! I hope she continues writing about this subject. I learned a lot and recently bought my very first vibrator ;>) As Joan says "use it or lose it!".

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All too often, I see especially in women my age, they are running their social lives like they are still vivacious 20 somethings, not post menopause seniors. Sorry to break it to you ladies, but the rules have changed. Men are still men, like the facts, or not. So, get this book, study it, learn it, then reset your goal posts to live in the real world, your new reality, not your near teen fantasy. Stop ignoring the 90% plus of the men out on your current peer age market, or the men will leave you in the dust. Also, there are some, er, medical details that women need to understand and work on. Again, women, don't shoot the messenger because you didn't like to hear the message.

This book is a collection of other peoples comments and as such was not too useful for us.

After reading this book I had a long overdue conversation with my husband about the evident problems we have been going through in our marriage for the last few years. If it were not for the advice I received from the author I would have never have done or said anything and gone on being miserable for the rest of my life. I made up my mind that we would either have to make significant changes in our marriage and if that wasn't possible than we needed to end our relationship. My husband was taken back by the things I said and the information I shared and did not want to lose me or end our 18 year marriage. He in turn read the book and we discussed the contents with each other. It has been 3 weeks now and we are like newlyweds again and the affection, sex and love has returned to our marriage. Thank you for writing this book..... It is a must for everyone to read whether you are happily married or not you will discover things about yourself and your spouse that you never knew before.

This is a well-written book for us, senior citizens. I only wish that I had read it ten years ago. Even middle-aged couples would benefit from the specific information given. After reading the first 30 pages, I stopped and put the book away until I went and bought a new highlighter. THEN I started all over again at the preface, with highlighter in hand. I am also making annotations in my notebook as I read. Best and most beneficial recommendation so far. has been help on inproving communications.

At 62 and 72, my husband and I like to say, "We've still got it!", and it's true. It's just that there are physical challenges that come up as time goes on, and rather than bury our heads in the sand and pretend that we're still in our 30's, we need to find ways to address these issues, or at least, to acknowledge them, realize we're not alone - (very comforting) - and make a decision as to how we want to proceed. This book offers insights from sex therapists, from the author's own experience, and questions from others at our stage of life. I'm grateful for it. Of course, if you want to improve your life in any capacity, it takes work, and this is no different. It requires an investment of time and sometimes, a little money, too. I've read it out loud to my husband at times, and he says it kind of turns him on. (Bonus. . .) For me, I just have to get past a bit of prudishness. Haven't had enough time with this book to give it a 5-star rating, but I'll update at a later date if I think it's worth 5 stars.