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This is the book for life's twists and turns, when being human starts to get complicated . A must-have companion to Dr Julie's international bestseller Why Has Nobody Told Me This Before? , which taught us the skills to strengthen our future mental health, Open When... is the book to turn to when you find yourself in the eye of the storm. Within this book are a series of Open When style letters from Dr Julie to help navigate the moments of overwhelm, confusion or self-doubt that we all face when life gets messy. Offering calm, clarity and a laser focus on the best way forward, each personal letter is followed by real-time tools that will help you re-frame the situation and decide on your next move. Every chapter covers a new scenario; universal problems that each of us will likely face at some point. So, whether you are experiencing stress, pressure to perform, dealing with difficult people, trying to fit in, making big decisions, arguments with your partner, or big emotions that are causing anxiety , Open When... brings the words you need to hear to put you back on the front foot, feeling ready to take on everything life throws your way. Review: nice book - *Open When: A Companion for Life's Twists & Turns* is a beautifully thoughtful book that feels like a warm hug for the soul. It is an emotionally uplifting collection of letters, notes, and reflections designed to provide comfort, inspiration, and guidance during various moments of life's journey. Each section of the book is intended to be "opened" at specific times, such as during times of stress, joy, doubt, or celebration—almost like a friend offering support when you need it most. The charm of this book lies in its personal, intimate tone. It's clear that the author genuinely cares about the reader's well-being. The writing is heartfelt and practical, offering wisdom that feels both comforting and real, without being preachy or overly idealistic. Each letter is crafted to match the different moods we experience, whether we're navigating loss, embarking on a new adventure, or simply looking for a reminder to take a deep breath. The book’s structure is particularly engaging because of its interactive nature. It's not just something you read; it's something you experience. Whether it’s a letter you open when you're feeling anxious, or one that encourages you to reflect on your personal growth, each page feels like an invitation to connect deeper with yourself. One of the standout qualities of *Open When* is its inclusivity—there’s something for everyone. Whether you're going through a rough patch, celebrating a milestone, or just need a little encouragement, the messages are universal, making it a perfect gift for a loved one or a self-care tool for oneself. The only downside might be that the book can feel a bit too sentimental for some readers who prefer more straightforward or practical advice. However, for anyone in need of a little emotional support and inspiration, *Open When* offers a beautifully crafted, thoughtful companion that will provide comfort for years to come. In conclusion, *Open When* is a truly heartfelt read that offers warmth and solace through life's highs and lows. A perfect blend of self-help and emotional support, it’s a great companion for anyone looking to navigate life’s many twists and turns with a little more guidance and a lot of love. Review: Pre-Ordered This- Love Dr. Julie's Content - This book is beautifully written. Reading it feels like a friend giving you sound advice over a cup of coffee. I have already read a letter that feels relatable at this phase of my life. It would make for a thoughtful gift to someone who might need some comfort. I loved her other book and felt like it was such a good book with practical skills for people not in the mental health field. As a school counselor by trade, I've recommended that book to lots of colleagues and some parent friends. In short, I really enjoy her content and feel like she helps people access good tools and perspectives for healthier living. The customer still has to do the work (of course) and her work can only offer guidance but I really enjoy her work and am not disappointed by this book. -kwhetz01
| Customer Reviews | 4.6 out of 5 stars 702 Reviews |
P**R
nice book
*Open When: A Companion for Life's Twists & Turns* is a beautifully thoughtful book that feels like a warm hug for the soul. It is an emotionally uplifting collection of letters, notes, and reflections designed to provide comfort, inspiration, and guidance during various moments of life's journey. Each section of the book is intended to be "opened" at specific times, such as during times of stress, joy, doubt, or celebration—almost like a friend offering support when you need it most. The charm of this book lies in its personal, intimate tone. It's clear that the author genuinely cares about the reader's well-being. The writing is heartfelt and practical, offering wisdom that feels both comforting and real, without being preachy or overly idealistic. Each letter is crafted to match the different moods we experience, whether we're navigating loss, embarking on a new adventure, or simply looking for a reminder to take a deep breath. The book’s structure is particularly engaging because of its interactive nature. It's not just something you read; it's something you experience. Whether it’s a letter you open when you're feeling anxious, or one that encourages you to reflect on your personal growth, each page feels like an invitation to connect deeper with yourself. One of the standout qualities of *Open When* is its inclusivity—there’s something for everyone. Whether you're going through a rough patch, celebrating a milestone, or just need a little encouragement, the messages are universal, making it a perfect gift for a loved one or a self-care tool for oneself. The only downside might be that the book can feel a bit too sentimental for some readers who prefer more straightforward or practical advice. However, for anyone in need of a little emotional support and inspiration, *Open When* offers a beautifully crafted, thoughtful companion that will provide comfort for years to come. In conclusion, *Open When* is a truly heartfelt read that offers warmth and solace through life's highs and lows. A perfect blend of self-help and emotional support, it’s a great companion for anyone looking to navigate life’s many twists and turns with a little more guidance and a lot of love.
K**W
Pre-Ordered This- Love Dr. Julie's Content
This book is beautifully written. Reading it feels like a friend giving you sound advice over a cup of coffee. I have already read a letter that feels relatable at this phase of my life. It would make for a thoughtful gift to someone who might need some comfort. I loved her other book and felt like it was such a good book with practical skills for people not in the mental health field. As a school counselor by trade, I've recommended that book to lots of colleagues and some parent friends. In short, I really enjoy her content and feel like she helps people access good tools and perspectives for healthier living. The customer still has to do the work (of course) and her work can only offer guidance but I really enjoy her work and am not disappointed by this book. -kwhetz01
P**R
This is an AMAZINGLY impactful book!
This book is one of the best books I have read in a long time. I feel that this book hits the reader on many levels based on what you may need. The chapters are rich, thought-provoking and impactful. Her writing is incredibly powerful! I highly recommend this book. There are a few chapters that didn’t resonate with me but I still love the message of each chapter.
J**S
Good read with good information
I enjoyed how the chapters are broken down based on the situation you want to read about. You can jump to the section you want without having to read previous chapters. Advice is practical and applicable.
A**N
A must read
Very informative, Easy to understand
J**N
In case you need to hear it - BUY THE BOOK!
Love this book! It’s not a book you just start reading from front to back, it’s a book you read when you NEED it. When you feel defeated, betrayed, friends feel like enemies, just moments when you can’t regulate your emotions. Just turn to the table of contents, find what you need help with and read some helpful insight! It’s also a conversation piece laying on your coffee table. I can’t tell you how many people have visited me, asked about the book and ordered one while sitting in my living room! BUY THE BOOK!
J**R
My bible
A great book to read when you’re triggered or escalated or can anticipate moments where you feel anxious. I handed it to my 12 year old who was having a difficult time one morning, and it helped bring a lot of clarity for her and helped ground her and find ways to conquer difficult situations. My 15 year old also read some chapters that she felt applied to her, and it really helped her understand how comparing herself to others can be detrimental and how to approach moments where comparisons starts to arise. So far I’ve used it myself to help ground me and when I know I’m anticipating anxiety. It’s on my nightstand for me and my girls to use whenever we need it. I highly recommend it for teens and adults.
J**Y
Absolutely essential for anyone
I'm so in love with this book! I have been looking for something just like this for years. Dr. Julie has done it. I appreciate that the chapters and sections are clearly titled so I can go directly to what I need to read for whatever situation I find myself needing help with without having to read it all. And there are so many different topics covered. I have already greatly benefitted from several chapters and I know this book will be a great help to whoever buys it. It's SO nice to be able to get the advice of someone who has been helping people through these situations and really cares.
M**A
Leitura agradável
Um livro fácil de ler, com muitas dicas e exercícios para aqueles momentos e dilemas difíceis da vida. Sou fã da dra Julie!
C**E
Inspiring one
An other inspiring and helping book. Thank you for sharing your advices !
C**A
Therapy and a best friend in a book
I love every chapter more than the other, highly recommended
A**R
Great book, from a trusted psychologist!
it helps with my soul so much... I feel like I have a companion with me, a reliable, trusted one. Thank you, Dr. Julie!
A**S
Practical, Uplifting, and Easy-to-Use: A Must-Have Self-Help Guide
Dr. Julie Smith’s Open With is a masterclass in accessible, practical self-help. This book stands out because of its unique format, which allows readers to dip in and out, finding exactly the guidance they need, exactly when they need it. What I loved most about this book is how effortlessly it combines simplicity with depth. Whether you’re facing a specific life event or just need a moment of clarity, Dr. Julie’s words provide a steady hand. The advice is easy to follow, yet profound enough to leave a lasting impact. Another highlight is its focus on helping readers navigate difficult conversations and situations. Dr. Julie doesn’t just offer general advice—she equips you with the right words and tools to handle real-life challenges, making it easier to process emotions and focus your mind. Open With isn’t just a book you read cover to cover; it’s a guide you keep close, returning to time and again for its insights and encouragement. Whether you’re dealing with personal struggles or simply seeking ways to enhance your mental well-being, this book is an invaluable resource. I highly recommend it to anyone looking for a compassionate, practical companion on their journey of self-discovery and growth.
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