The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work: A Practical Guide from the Country’s Foremost Relationship Expert, Revised and Updated

One of the best books I'd ever read about relationships. This good saved my relationship as well.Highly recommended

Thought provoking and practical, I initially read this as a follow up to The Science of Trust as I enjoyed that but wanted to find out more about the practical improvement aspects of John’s work, rather than because I was looking for help myself. In the end I found lots of ways in which my husband and I can work on our already positive marriage and make it even stronger. Great read filled with practical ideas.

I do not read books, my daughter who is eleven came into the room and saw me reading this book and burst out laughing because she’s never seen me read a book before! But I have to say I started it this evening and I haven’t put it down, I’m now on chapter five. I didn’t believe a book could relate to me, my husband and our marriage as this book has! I’m extremely surprised and pleased that I bought this book and would defiantly recommend it to anyone who’s marriage is just going through a tough time.

Not all of this book is relevant to everyone. BUT parts of it WILL be relevant to EVERYONE!! (different parts obviously)

I love this book even though I am single. Have encouraged others to buy it. I will gift to others too.Watch his you tube video as a recap. A good point of reference for all our relationships.

I am not married yet but I thought it could teach me a lot about marriage so I can prevent future problems.I totally loved it.It comes with exercises for you and your partner and it is very very helpful.I will definitely read it later on.

I would have preferred more actual advice with more in depth explanations.I don't like how many quizzes there are, and feel that for the price of the book it could be longer. Some good tips to take from it, which I think deep down if you've got common sense you do know most of them anyway, but good to have some case studies of other couples to compare against.A summary of do's and don't's at the back would be good, to save constant flicking back and referring to different sections of the book, just for quick refresher moments when you feel you need it when problems or arguments arise.I did like learning about the "horsemen" in a relationship and really will work on getting shot of some of these niggles coming up in our marriage.After 20 years together, we still love each other very much, and can't bear the thought of having issues in our relationship with each other.For what it's worth, before I read this book, we had agreed that to move forward we need to remember to treat each other like we treat our close friends. With respect, an empathetic ear, concern, love, loyalty and gratitude. We feel like lately we've taken it for granted the other one is just "there" and we aren't as careful with our words and actions.Our plan was concreted in this book. It's at least given me reassurance that we have been dealing with our issues in the right way.

It's good, but requires work to get the best out of it.Wish I had known some of this sooner.Certainly helped me get closer to wifey and identify things I do which really aren't helpful to our marriage. Recommended by me.

Dr. John Gottman’s book “Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work” is an insightful and invaluable guide that provides a beacon of hope and practical advice for couples navigating the complexities of marriage.This book delves deep into the core principles that foster strong and lasting relationships. Dr. Gottman draws upon his extensive research and clinical experience to outline actionable strategies, allowing readers to understand the dynamics within their relationship and cultivate a deeper connection with their partner.What sets this book apart is its empathetic approach. Dr. Gottman addresses common relationship pitfalls with sensitivity, offering guidance without judgment. His emphasis on communication, emotional intelligence, and understanding the dynamics of conflict resolution provides a roadmap for couples seeking to improve their relationship dynamics.Each principle outlined in the book is supported by real-life examples and exercises, making it accessible and relatable. The practical nature of the advice allows couples to implement these principles in their daily lives, fostering a more profound sense of understanding and intimacy.Moreover, the book doesn’t just focus on problem-solving; it also highlights the importance of fostering positive interactions and building a foundation of trust and respect. Dr. Gottman’s emphasis on celebrating love and cherishing the bond between partners resonates throughout the book, inspiring hope and motivation for couples facing challenges.One of the most compelling aspects of “Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work” is its universal applicability. Regardless of the stage of your relationship, whether you’re newlyweds or have been together for years, the wisdom imparted in this book offers something valuable for everyone.In conclusion, this book is a treasure trove of wisdom and guidance for couples seeking to strengthen their relationship. Dr. Gottman’s expertise, compassionate approach, and actionable advice make “Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work” an essential read for anyone invested in cultivating a thriving and enduring partnership.

Very straight forward points and a great read whether your relationship is in trouble or not. Definitely beneficial for conflict resolution but you and your spouse must be receptive to change and consistently putting in effort.

Whether you're married, in a relationship, or single - I highly recommend to all. This book gives you healthy and essential communication skills to understand and receive one another with compassion and acceptance.

the book is amazing and if you are not married to a pathological liar and covert narc, i am sure it can even help couples...easy read and excellent exercises

Das Buch ist unfassbar informativ. Die Erkenntnisse beruhen auf jahrzehntelanger wissenschaftlicher Forschung und werden durch Beispiele untermauert. Dadurch liest sich das Buch (auf Englisch) sehr leicht. Es regt zur aktiven Reflektion an (Fragenbögen etc).Sehr zu empfehlen für alle Paare - egal ob verheiratet oder nicht - und auch für Singles.